“Relationships require that we learn new skills… “
The next thing I knew Curt was in a relationship with Katie. They both seemed thrilled by it, going places together, holding hands, finishing one another’s sentences. When I called Curt about the two of us going bowling he replied, “Can’t. Katie doesn’t want me to.” I was mystified! Am I that bad an influence? As time went on Katie slowly remade Curt… no more jeans, no shaggy hair, no more time available for anyone who was not Katie! They both seemed happy so I decided it was none of my business. And then one day Curt bludgeoned Katie to death with a cricket bat!
Every relationship has its own dynamic, its own seasons of feast and famine. Within those changing seasons we can sometimes discover a “me” that I never knew existed… the irrationally jealous me, the chronically pissed-off me, the self-centered me. So what do we do…
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